So this is my birth chart. Can you tell me the birthdate of my perfect match?

Well, Your Ascendant is Scorpio which is ruled by Pluto, so Pluto Rules your Chart and Pluto is in 1.43 degrees Sagittarius's. So first of all, you know there is no such thing as a perfect match, as there is too much to consider, but so far you should start out getting a long great with someone born on November 23rd.